He Says, She Says

He’s good.

He could read Her words, read between the lines, between the words.

He’s right. She’s not very happy.

Why?

*shrug*

Maybe She’ll story what She feels later on because tonight, She’s so darn sleepy. She’s been sleepy since dinner time but She spent the past 2 hours or so, reading this lady’s blog and what she posted today is just… heart wrenching…

And because of this post, She read what the lady had written in the past year, her experience of dealing with the hubby who passed on within just 2 months after being diagnosed of having the big C, AND still having 2 lil’ girls to look after… :”(

Her heart goes out to her.

But She sees that this lady is coping… well, she had to…

She’s actually bloody lazy to write. But She must not let this blog, Their Blog, be left unattended for long. She knows that He’ll come here everyday… A blog is like a relationship. If left unattended, ‘unnurtured’, it’ll die off… slowly but surely, it will…

So, She’s gonna try to keep the flame burning… *burn burn*

Lately, They didn’t seem to have much to yak about… He’s got His share of life’s headaches.

And She…

She is still getting those indecent proposals…

She just might accept one of it one of these days…

Ahhh, life’s a bitch. Another year wrapping up and another one will begin.

Crystal Ball, Oh Crystal Ball… what’s in store for Her in the year(s) to come? She’s getting bored…

She saw Him online tonight. Lotsa misfortunes befell Him… poor Baby He…

She could only offer comfort and sayang to Him. She knows it’s not enough, but She doesn’t know what else to do.

At the same time, She’s been missing Evie terribly today donno why… She just misses him…

But She’s not going to try making contact with him for now. She’ll try not to. She’ll try hard not to.

Maybe it’s the bloody period that’s making Her so emotional

She wanted so much to comment about MS’s post today but She bloody no mood to write. It’s all in Her mind. She wants to tell MS that if Eric can be rampas-ed with mere EDPs and teddy bears, then she’s better off without him. Betul tak??

But She understands where the girl is coming from… She does… MS is just feeling insecure, that’s all. She shouldn’t be. She needn’t be. But, she’s just a young lady. Perhaps she’ll learn as she moves on in life. She’ll learn to look beyond these trivial matters. In time, she’ll learn…

She’s been sleeping alot the past 3 days…

Sleep, go out with Mom, sleep, go out with Mom, sleep, go out with Mom…

Suddenly, She missed Evie She missed Chris

She also got miss Him

Maybe cos it’s Christmas… and Christmas is usually Her favourite holiday…

She also found a new friend from Singapore. The name is Eugene. Nice guy he. He even called Her tonight over the Internet. He sounded ‘manly’ LOL…

Oh, and it’s the time of the month… maybe that’s why She no mood

He was back earlier today… She should have known that no one fetched Him from the airport, but She didn’t. She promised to be the chauffer the next time around

Poor Baby He… must be darn tired… but at the same time, He’s got so many things on His mind. So many things to do in the next 2 weeks. She would like to help Him if He needed it, but He wouldn’t let Her help Him.

Uh huh, He’s a Man… Heck, He’s da’ MAN!

He’s like Evie. Well, only in some ways… not all.

There was once She offered to help Evie out with his lack of resources but of course, he wouldn’t let Her. He said it’s not right. He said he won’t take it no matter what happens. Aarghh! Sometimes men can be SO stubborn!

But She shall not harp on it. She knows that things should turn out alright for Him… Well, it better! If it doesn’t, (touchwood!) He knows where to seek assistance…

She’s gonna watch Kong later tonight with the Mom… So, most probably She won’t catch Him online. Here’s wishing Him a stressfree vacation, have more xxx and… MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Sealed with *muahmuah*

Yay!!! Last day without Him.

He’s gonna be back soon!

Oh oh… He’s much better today. Can joke, can kid around, can tokkok. Summore He said He wants Her LOL… Yalah, since He’s out of the country, He can tok loud loud… Back here, He’ll be a ‘cat’ again

But on a more serious note, She’s so relieved to know that He’s well again today, and that today is His happiest day over there bcos He gets to hug hug all the nice cun babes @ work. He said they are so cool, can talk and laugh about everything. So, She asked Him, She’s NOT cool???

He didn’t answer pulak.

She told Him that She said a little little prayer for Him last night bcos She was abit worried about His condition. And it worked. Well, maybe it wasn’t Her prayer. Maybe it’s just His internal systems have healed during the night. Actually, She shouldn’t have called it a prayer bcos She rarely prays… but then again, who was She talking to when She said out the ‘wish’ inside Her heart?? Some genie, maybe?? LOL…

ANYWAYS…

Yay yay! He’s gonna be back!

But then again, it doesn’t make a diff to Her whether He’s here, or there…

…or anywhere…

She had a long day at work today and left work about 9pm.

She thought of going to partay tonight because for the next 2 wks or so, Her Mommy is coming over but that also means that She’ll hv to behave Herself and be a good good girl

But She felt slightly drained today… so, ended up at home tonight.

Around after midnite, He ‘appeared’.

Poor poor Baby said that He puked and felt so unwell

She’s sure all the ladies would agree with Her that when men fall sick, they are the biggest baby around… She has seen ‘em all… Poor babies… But kesian them also lar… Being unwell is definitely not a nice feelin’ at all.

He sounded so miserable. But She couldn’t do anything. She could only asked Him to go to bed…

After a while, She found out why He was sick. He had a tad too much of booze and ciggies AND very little food…

Tsk tsk tsk…

Anyhow, She ain’t gonna say much about this… She’ll just baby Him if He needs it.

That’s what She is for

She’ll pray that He’s feelin’ alright by the time He reads this.

She says, “Take care, Baby.”
*muah muah*

Oh… p/s: Tonite, He forgot to/didn’t seal Their chat with a kiss

He left this morning on a business trip.

She texted Him to wish Him Bon Voyage!

He replied and then said that the girl at the check-in counter has got DEEP cleavage… hmmm…

So, She thought She wouldn’t be hearing from Him for the next few days but He came online earlier! Said that He’s darn tired because He went to party earlier. Apalah… She thought He was tired because He worked so hard.

He’s staying at one of the most luxurious hotel in Asia. She said that He should ajak Her go along since He’s staying in a big big luxurious room.

What a waste of room space!

One man in sucha big room!

Imagine the things They could do in that big big room

Hey, watcha thinking??

They could play hide-and-seek, okay! Or even blindman’s buff Or hopscotch. Or Red Light, Green Light. Or strip poker LOL. Or even wrestling! Oh oh, Twister Boardgame also can! And then They can find Themselves in some compromising positions LOL… So many games can play lah okay…

He said next time He’d consider ajak-ing Her to go along…

But She thinks He just tokkok so that She won’t sulk.

All in all, it was a pleasant surprise to see Him online earlier

And oh BTW, today She found out that the other Chris is actually an Indian!! *faint* He thought he had told Her about this, but he didn’t.

Luckily She didn’t go to his house when he asked Her to… And the other day, Anne told Her this. “Once you’ve tried a black, you won’t go back.” LOL… that’s farnie!

Nay… for now, She wouldn’t wanna try a black LOL…

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You tend to be a the rock in relationships - people depend on you.
Thoughtful and caring, you often put others needs first.
You aren’t content to help those you know… you want to give to the world.
An idealist, you strive for positive change and dream about how much better things could be.

Your strength: Your intuition

Your weakness: You put yourself last

Your power color: Rose

Your power symbol: Cloud

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He’s very upset today because He said that His appraisal sucked… Poor Him… She thinks that He’s too hard on Himself. She hopes by the time He reads this, He’s feeling better…

And, He also sent Her a message today asking Her if She liked vibrate or manual. She was like, HUH??? After that, it struck Her… You mean He’s gonna get Her a vibrator??? LOL… There was once He said He’d get Her a vibrator LOL and He said that manual one is better hahaha…

But She wants the Real Thing leh… can? cannnn???

Tonight was Ladies’ Night @ The Loft. 2 free drinks for the ladies and some buffet food too! She went with Anne. They reached around 9:45 and not many people around.

They sat at the bar. Theme of the night was Disco Motion. Suited Her alright because they played nice songs. Songs from the 80’s, early 90’s and a few 70’s too. She had lotsa fun, EXCEPT…

Beside Her, there was this sad-looking guy drinking alone. Then, his fren came. After a while, the fren befriended Her and Anne. He offered some drinks to them. Some whisky. Then he came over to my side and introduced himself as Andrew, and he also introduced his fren which She couldn’t get his name. Darnnn… LOL.

Andrew chatted with Her and then moved on to Anne. She saw that Andrew had sotong hands!! Raba-raba Anne here and there… She knew Anne’s a smart girl and could handle him.

Anyway, She started a conversation with the sad-looking guy. He told Her that he failed his PhD exam AND he lost his gf. So, kononnya he was analysing what went wrong, why did he fail. She could empathise with his loss. And he said that he lost both (failed exam and lost gf) at the same time. It must have been a big blow to him. No wonder he looked so sad…

She gave him a few words of wisdom, as usual, like how She’d do to everyone else! LOL… He’s a nice guy actually. But oh well, that’d be the last time they meet, She supposed.

On Her way back, She reflected on Her conversation with him. She reminds Herself that there are a lot of other people out there who has got much bigger problem than Her or Him. She feels that people have gotta LEARN to let go of the things that sadden or upset them.

Because it’s not worth dwelling on it.

It’s not worth because a lot of time will be wasted, a lot of energy will be wasted by just thinking of that situation which no one can have any control over it.

Yes, She acknowledges the fact that humans have to ‘mourn’ for themselves.

But a couple of days of ‘mourning’ will be enough.

Then it’s time to look forward to other things in life… Yeah, now She can say all these words of wisdom because She’s currently ‘free’ from any ’situations’. Plus, Her two days of training on Mon and Tues really opened Her eyes to the so-called Life, and human psychology. She would like very much to blog about this but She doesn’t really know how to do it, how to put it in words…

Oh well… Que sera sera, whatever will be, will be…

Man, She’s so hungry now!