2 choices
(A) To stay on [but for how long?]
- not confident in solving the problem at work, will have problems meeting own expectation and of course, other people’s as well.
- needs to work hard, probably doubly hard, to achieve desired results.
- don’t think of the past anymore. Thinking if our past decision(s) is/are right or not, will not help in finding solutions to current situations. It can only make ownself question own’s judgment at that time. Therefore, no good. To quit questioning and move on.
- to try seeking opinions/thoughts from colleauges or even superiors, be they younger or older because this could be crucial in determining if the desired results could be achieved. Ego to be discarded -> important. Because no man is an island…
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(B) To quit [but will the next job be The One?]
- must decide what is the next bidang to jump into, and must be decided fast. {Should He decides to go into a new field altogether, it’s not an impossible task. Remember, Her sister is a Computer Science graduate and look what is she doing now - copywriting! Alamak…)
- must quit in, at the most, 3 months. Time is gold and not to be wasted. In the 3 months, must secure a job that one really wants and really interested in.
- must realise that the age of 26-27 is NOT old.
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Hmmm… somehow the second option “looks” easier, doesn’t it? But of course it comes with more risks and lacking sense of security (financial wise to be precise).
All in all, these are two of His primary fears:
-not able to meet His own expectations (and others’) if He stayed on.
-if He quits, He’s gonna feel insecure about his finances, because now, He has some financial committment.
She is just trying to analyse the situation objectively. But like She said earlier, actually deep inside Him, He knows what He should do.
He feels that the gf is unable to help Him. Well, nobody can actually help Him except He Himself (and probably His officemates). People closest to Him can only render their support and love.
But He really shouldn’t feel helpless if He can’t decide what to do at this moment. It’s not the end of the world. Yes, it could be frustrating but hell, that’s life!
She knows that He is capable of doing anything, if He wants it badly enough 
And the best part, He knows it too…
